Rushing into a Relationship
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Rushing into a Relationship

Some things in life need time but other things will not work if they are rushed through.  Relationships need time to grow and to form.

Some people believe that relationships are like having a job or is the same as building a house and they think that things need to all be done as soon as possible, but a relationship needs to be built on respect, boundaries and patience.

When you rush a relationship, it can cause things that were going to be good to end up badly.

Push Them Away

You probably won’t make the relationship unhealthy, but there is a good chance that you will just cause someone to run away.

Being rushed to love someone is unnatural and so when you push someone into a relationship then they will most likely just be pushed away and turned off.


When you try too hard you become less attractive.  When you push too hard for a relationship then you will cause people to not see you as beautiful but needy and pushy.


Rushing into a relationship can even confuse yourself and make it hard for you to act normal.  The more this happens the harder it is for you to become who you need to be,


Love has its own timing and if you try to rush things then it will cause you to not find real love.  Stopping you from getting what you want.

Miss Out

If you rush a relationship, chances are you will miss out on the one person that you were really meant to be, People build relationships on ideas that they need a relationship to make them happy.

They think that if they aren’t in a relationship that they will not be happy or feel good in their lives.  The rush things and do not wait for a long-term relationship.

Things do not work that way and people have to slow down and not rush things.  You can’t settle for someone to love because it will cause you to miss out on real love.

Unhealthy Relationships

Rushing into a relationship is not having a good relationship.  You have to build the relationship from the root, or you will fall into a toxic relationship.

Each time you do this, you can ruin something special that is supposed to happen to you.  Just wait and be patient.

Miss Out

Don’t rush things and even when things seem small and then you will see that you can find better relationships that can be strengthened and form bonds that you didn’t think were possible.

Even if the person that you are rushing into the relationship with seems perfect, you can’t always trust your gut in this situation.  Let them lead you to questions and ask things that make them uncomfortable.

If you are serious about the relationship you have to take a leap, but while you do, don’t rush things and let a healthy, long-term relationship be formed.

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